Lezi Amathiphu Ezingu-9 Izokusiza Ukubhekisela Kokungalingani kwakho
Ingabe uzithola ukhuluma kabi ngomsebenzi ezinye noma isikhathi esiningi? Ingabe uzizwa uboshiwe ukungabi nandaba kwabasebenzi osebenza nabo? Ingabe ubamba iqhaza ezingxoxweni zomsebenzi ezikushiye ukhiphe ithemba?
Futhi, ukhononda emndenini wakho ngomsebenzi ubusuku bonke?
Ngesinye isikhathi, kuzodingeka ukhethe: ukubamba iqhaza ku-undercurrent of negativity noma ukukhululeka futhi udale indawo ehlukile yokusebenzela. Ingabe ufuna ukuba nethemba lakho namaphupho namahora angu-40 ngeviki (kanye namahora wokuhlanganyela ukungabi nenjabulo nomndeni wakho nabangani abangaphandle kwesikhatsi somsebenzi) obhekene nokungahambi kahle?
Noma, ingabe uzimisele ukukhulula kokungabi nalutho okukhona ku-element noma subculture enhlanganweni yakho? Ingabe uzimisele ukubhekana nokungahambi kahle kwakho futhi udale iphuzu elihlukile lokubuka?
Ungakwazi ukuma nalabo abayeke ukuhlala embi enhlanganweni yakho. Noma, ungajoyina abantu abakukhetha isiko elihle futhi abasebenzisa isikhathi sabo, amandla nemicabango ehlukile kuneli qembu labasebenzi ababi.
Nakhu ongakwenza ukuze ukhulule umjikelezo wokungabi nandaba nokushiya idumela lakho njengesisebenzi esibi.
(Yebo, uma ngabe ungebi, leli dumela likhona - uxolo.)
- Qaphela ukuthi ungabantu futhi ngezikhathi ezithile uhlangabezana nezimo lapho kufanele uhambisane nezinqumo ongazitholi ngokuphelele. Awufuni ukufaka isandla ekunganaki ngamazwi akho, izenzo, ukuziphatha okungekho amazwi, noma izwi. Noma kunjalo, ufuna ukwenza ngokusemthethweni ngakho-ke uthembekile futhi unokwethenjelwa.
- Yazi kahle ngokwanele ukuze uqaphele ngaphakathi uma uba nombi. Nciphisa imicabango eqhuba ukungahambi kahle kwakho. Yeka ukukhathazeka nganoma yini engqondweni yakho edonsela phansi. Shintsha imicabango yakho kulokho oyithandayo noma ubheke phambili ukwenza. Ngokuzijwayeza, ungaqeqesha ingqondo yakho ukugxila ezikhathini ezikhuthazayo.
- Izwi elincane ekhanda lakho lidinga ukuqeqeshwa, futhi. Uma uzwa ukusakazwa okuqhubekayo kwemicabango engalungile usuku lonke, udinga ukuzikhumbuza ngobumnene ukuthi unqume ukushintsha leyo nkulumo. Uma izwi liqala ingxoxo engalungile, yishintshe kumazwi asekela okuhle kuwe.
- Qaphela izimo zomsebenzi lapho uthola khona ukuthi uzivikela noma awubi. Ngenxa yokuthi uyazi, zama ukuqaphela uma usabela futhi ugweme ukusabela kwakho okungavamile okungalungile. (Abanye abantu bazi ukuthi bangakuhamba kanjani futhi basunduze izinkinobho zakho ezishisayo ngamabomu, okushoyo.)
- Thatha isikhathi noma uhambe eceleni uma uhlangabezane nesimo esicindezelayo. Imizuzu embalwa yedwa ingashintsha ukusabela kwakho nokuxhumana.
- Uma uzithola ungenzi kahle ngokuqondisa isiqondiso, isimemezelo, isabelo, noma ingxoxo, cabanga ngomphumela wakho omuhle kakhulu wesimo . Ungase ungakwazi ukuphazamisa isinqumo, kodwa ungenza okungcono kakhulu kuwe kanye neqembu lakho lomsebenzi. Zibuze ukuthi yini ongayenza ukuze udale umphumela wakho oyifunayo esikhundleni sokuchitha isikhathi sakho ukuphikisa nokukhononda.
- Zichitha isikhathi esithile uqobo ucabanga nsuku zonke mayelana nezici ezinhle zomsebenzi wakho nokuphila kwakho. Awufuni ukuchitha sonke isikhathi sakho ekucabangeni okubi. Uma kungekho lutho oluhle lokucabanga ngalo, hlola impilo oyikhetha ukuyidala.
- Thatha ukuhamba noma uhlanganyele emisebenzini yomzimba oyithandayo. Lezi zenzo zingakusiza ukuba usule ingqondo yakho futhi zinikeze ukugxila okuhlukile kwimicabango yakho.
- Ziphathe ngokwakho. Ungazishayi phezulu noma uziqagele ngokwakho phezu kwezinqumo noma amaphutha. Wena ungumuntu. Ufunda; ukhula. Gxila esithombeni esikhulu; ungaxhunyiwe ngosuku nosuku.
Qaphela ukuthi into kuphela olawula ngayo ngempela ukuthi ukhetha ukusabela kanjani futhi ubambe iqhaza kunoma yisiphi isimo odala noma okuhlangenwe nakho. Ngiyethemba ukuthi le mibono izokusiza ukuba uxazulule noma yikuphi ukungahambi kahle kwakho okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho endaweni yakho yokusebenzela.
Uphethe ukungahambi kahle kwakho. Yinike yona.