Uma uthatha umthwalo wempilo yakho, ufinyelela amaphupho akho
Kodwa ngaphandle kokuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo, cishe wonke umuntu ubheka umsebenzi wakho njengokwehluleka ngoba uvumele noma yikuphi umoya odlulayo ukukushaya, ngenkathi sonke esola umoya ngokuthi izinto zenzeke kanjani.
Uma uhluleka ukuqondisa isiqondiso sakho nemiphumela yakho ngokuziphendulela, usetha isiteji ekudaleni ukuphila okudabukisayo-impilo egcwalisa amaphupho akho kanye nezifiso zakho.
Ungenzi izizathu
Izizathu zokuhluleka, ukuzithethelela mayelana nokukhetha kwakho empilweni, ukuzithethelela ngalokho ozizwa uyenzile-nalokho ongakwenzi - ukubhebhethekisa ukucabanga okungasebenzi futhi ngenxa yalokho, izenzo ezingathandeki kanye nokuziphatha.
Ukwenza izizathu esikhundleni sokuthatha umthwalo wemithwalo eyikhulu wamaphesenti ezenzweni zakho, imicabango yakho, nemigomo yakho yimbonakaliso yabantu abahluleka ukuphumelela kokubili kokuphila kwabo kwezobuchwepheshe kanye nokuphila kwabo siqu.
Ingxenye yamandla okuthatha umthwalo wemisebenzi yezenzo zakho ukuthi ukuthulisa izwi elibi, elingenakukhathazeka ekhanda lakho. Uma uchitha isikhathi sakho sokucabanga ekuphumeleleni nasekufezeni umgomo , kunokuba wenze izizathu, ukhulula isikhala esingokomzwelo esasikelwe ukungabi nandaba.
Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi njengoba lelo gama elibi ekhanda lakho lizoqhuba amateyipu angenamkhawulo wokunganeliseki futhi avuselele imiphumela engalungile, enganelisayo ngokuphindaphindiwe-i-nauseum yezikhangiso.
Ngesikhathi esilandelayo lapho uzibamba ubeka izaba, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uphumelela kanjani, umgomo ongenamkhawulo, noma umsebenzi owukhethile ukusebenza, ngokuzithoba ukhumbule-akukho zizathu.
Ukuphazamisa leyo tape engapheli edlala engqondweni yakho bese uyeka ukuxoxa ngaleyo ngxoxo egcwele izizathu. Sebenzisa isikhathi sakho somcabango uhlela ukusebenza kwakho okulandelayo okuphumelelayo.
Ukucabanga okuhle kunomkhuba omuhle. Ivumela ukuhluleka kwephethiloli.
Indlela yokuthatha umthwalo wempilo yakho
Abantu abathatha imithwalo ephelele yokuphila kwabo bajabulela injabulo nokulawula izimo. Bakwazi ukwenza izinqumo ngoba bayaqonda ukuthi banomthwalo wemfanelo yokukhetha kwabo.
Ngempela, ngisho noma izenzakalo ezingekho ngaphansi kokulawulwa kwakho zihamba kahle, ungakwazi okungenani unqume ukuthi uzosabela kanjani kumcimbi. Ungenza umcimbi inhlekelele noma ungayisebenzisa njengethuba lokufunda nokukhula.
Isici esibaluleke kakhulu sokuthatha umthwalo wempilo yakho ukuvuma ukuthi impilo yakho iyimfanelo yakho. Akekho ongaphila impilo yakho ngawe. Uphethe. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uzama kangakanani ukugxeka abanye ngezenzakalo zokuphila kwakho, umcimbi ngamunye umphumela wokukhetha okwenziwe futhi okwenzayo.
Ufuna ukuhamba? Bese, hamba. Akuwona umsebenzi wakho, oshade naye noma ozakwethu, izindleko, noma isikhathi esikuvimba ekufezeni amaphupho akho. Nguwe. Ufuna ukukala inombolo ethile yamakhilogremu? Khona-ke, udle futhi usebenzise izinto ezifana nomuntu ongalinganisa leso sisindo esithile.
Ufuna ukunyuswa esikhundleni sokuphatha ? Khona-ke, yenza njengokuthi, kubukeka sengathi, futhi usebenzise izenzo abaphathi abaphumelelayo abakubonisayo enhlanganweni yakho ngaleyo ndima, Yenza isifiso sakho saziwe futhi, njengoba ungasoze wazi umgomo wakho uma ugcina imfihlo .
Kudlule izikhathi eziningana? Buza ukuthi yini okudingeka uyenze ukuze uthole ukukhuthazwa. Sisadlulile? Funa umsebenzi omusha ukuze uqhubeke nokuphishekela iphupho lakho.
Ngaphezu kwakho konke, lalela lelo zwi elincane ekhanda lakho. Futhi, ziqaphele ukhuluma nabasebenzi osebenza nabo, amalungu omndeni nabangane. Uzizwa uqobo uthatha umthwalo wemfanelo noma ubeka icala?
- Khipha icala, ususe izizathu. Uma ithrekhi yecala noma ithrekhi yecala idlala ngokuphindaphindiwe engqondweni yakho, usuke uguqulela umthwalo wemfanelo ngezinqumo zakho nokuphila kwabanye.
- Zilalele lapho ukhuluma. Engxoxweni yakho, uyazizwa ubeka abanye icala yini ngezinto ezingahambi kahle ngendlela oyifunayo? Ingabe uzithola ukhomba iminwe kulabo osebenza nabo noma ukukhuliswa kwakho, ithonya lomzali wakho, inani lemali owenzayo, noma oshade naye? Ingabe wenza izizathu zemigomo engahambisani noma imisebenzi ephuthelwe isikhathi sokugcina? Uma ungase uzwe amaphethini akho okusola, ungawayeka.
- Uma umuntu ehlonipha imithombo yezimpahla ukuthi wenza izizathu futhi usole abanye ngezinkinga zakho, thatha impendulo ngokungathí sina. Lawula ukusabela kwakho okuzivikela futhi uhlole izibonelo futhi uqinise ukuqonda kwakho komsebenzi noma umngane. Abantu ababheke impendulo ngokuziphendulela bathola impendulo engaphezulu.
Wena udaba
Hlala nsuku zonke njengokungathi lokho okwenzayo kuyindaba-ngoba kuyakwenza. Yonke into oyikhethayo; konke okuthathayo-izindaba. Izinqumo zakho zithinta kuwe futhi zakha impilo ohlala kuyo. Izinqumo zakho ziyindaba emisebenzini , futhi. Ukhetha indlela yokukhiqiza kanye nomnikelo noma, ukhetha indlela yesisebenzi esincane.
Yonke isenzo osithathayo sithinta inqubekela phambili yenhlangano ngendlela eyodwa noma kwenye. Uhlala wenza umehluko. Vumela ukuthi umehluko ushukumise umhlaba phambili. Wena udaba. Futhi, imicabango yakho ibalulekile, futhi.
Imicabango iyindaba
"Siba yilokho esikucabangayo kakhulu." Ukufingqa okuka-Earl Nightingale kwamandla emicabango yakho kungenye yezitatimende eziphawulekayo ezake zenziwe. Cabanga ngakho. Imicabango yakho ihlale ikuwe.
Futhi, bavame ukudlala ngokuphindaphindiwe ekhanda lakho. Bangakusiza ukuba ucabange futhi uthathe isenzo esihle noma okuphambene nalokho. Imicabango yakho ingabe igxeke noma isekela ukufezwa kwemigomo yakho.
Lalela izwi engqondweni yakho. Uyazi i-drill. Imicabango engcolile inkulu futhi ingakwazi ukulawula ingqondo yakho izinsuku. Kodwa, ukuthi ungayithola kanjani, indlela yokuphinda ubuyekeze noma ubuyekeze isimo esivele senzeke, noma indlela yokwenza izizathu noma ukugxeka abanye akunamandla, ukucabanga okuhle.
Uma imicabango yakho ingenayo noma ingasekeli injabulo yakho nempumelelo yakho, kufanele ushintshe ukucabanga kwakho. Ngomusa-ungazishayi phezulu-uphinde uqondise ukucabanga kwakho emicabangweni ezosekela impumelelo yakho nenjabulo. Hlaka, uma unakho, uma ucabanga ngesikhathi osichitha ukucabangela ngezinto eziphelile futhi zaqedwa.
Imicabango yakho ilawula impumelelo yokuxhumana kwakho kwabantu. Imicabango yakho yizibani ezikhanyayo ezikhanyisa indlela yakho ebumnyameni. Zihlala zihamba phambili kuwe nezenzo zakho. U-Nightingale uthi, "Ingqondo ihamba ngokuqondisa kwemicabango yethu ekhona manje." Kholwa nguye.